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The Best Indonesian Dating Sites for Foreigners

Indonesian women are different with women from other Asian countries. Generally speaking, Indonesian girls have long dark-colored hair, a tiny body, bigger brown eyes, sensual appearance and amazing smile.

Many girls in the country’s provinces (about one third) use Jilbab (a kind of loose long coat worn by Muslim Women), but girls from big cities like Jakarta, Christian or Hindu areas are more open. They are usually slim, pretty and wear jeans and T-shirt. Indonesian girls like being with foreigners so much that even a very common man have chances to date models and actresses from the country. Of course if you are good looking with a decent job and salary, you will have very high success rate of dating Indonesian women.

Beautiful Indonesian girls

Today it has become very convenient to find your ideal lovers in Indonesia. many Indonesian girls resort to internet to find their foreign partners. You can sign up any of the Indonesian dating sites below. I suggest you find girls from a big cities such as Jakarta, you will always find some hidden gems among the many local girls. Please check my reviews of Indonesian dating sites below.

1. IndonesianCupid (Dating Sites and App)

indonesian cupid dating website
Indonesian Cupid is a top Indonesian dating site connecting local singles with foreign singles. This is the biggest Indonesian dating site for foreigners. Now it has both dating site and android dating app available.

Indonesian Cupid is part of well-reputed Cupid Media, one of the largest dating services in the world. Indonesian Cupid has more than one million male and female registers from both Indonesia and around the world. Most girls here are serious and are interested in long time relationships. The site has brought thousands of happy men and women together and you can find their happy stories on the site.

It is easy to get started: First, create a profile and upload your photo; Second, start browse photos with different preferences and settings; Third, send a message or interest and start communicating. It is your time to shine.

The site offers various functions like creating profile, text messaging, delivering “interest”, online chatting and so on. You can put a girl to your like list very easily and then look through the girls’ profiles and make a profile list you would like to contact.

One feature on Indonesian Cupid is that Indonesian girls here tend to write more about themselves on dating profile such as likes and dislikes, which is very different from girls in countries such as Thailand and Philippines who spend less time on their profile. This means that Indonesian girls put some thoughts into finding their love. Besides, girls on this platform are more middle class compared with dating app Tinder. Probably, you’ll chat with company employees, teachers, nurses, etc.

Indonesian Cupid is a quite active site and there are always at least 500-1000 Indonesian girls and Chinese Indonesian girls online. Compared with other sites, I must say that this is the best place to find Indonesian singles. I will give it 5 stars and strongly recommend it to you.


  • Large member base with lots of members
  • Easy to use platform
  • Free to register and create a profile
  • Support multiple languages
  • Both site and Android app are available


  • No Apple app is available

Indonesian Cupid

2. on dating site and dating app)Badoo dating site is another excellent dating site which is often used by Indonesian singles. Though it is an international site (with more than 46 million members world wide), many open and modern Indonesian women especially in Jakarta like to be on Badoo and there are often hundreds of Indonesian girls online.

You can find large numbers of Indonesian girls with different background. You can choose your ideal girls through age, place, status, etc. The free basic service allows you to send messages to 5 girls per day, upload photos and chat.

A paid member can enjoy more advanced features. Many girls here can speak English and most of them hope to see foreign lovers. However, it seems that there are some prostitutes who look for clients on Badoo. Be careful with that.

It is an international site which supports more than 40 languages, so no need to worry if you do not speak Indonesian.

The functions are very good for a free member, you can send text message to a small number of people everyday. Paid members can get access to more profiles. Badoo has both website and app available (both Android and iPhone).


  • 3 months Free trial
  • Leading Kenyan dating site
  • Free and easy registration
  • Good response rate
  • Live video chat and message chat
  • Android app is available


  • At least one member need to be paid member before exchange message. 

Visit Badoo!


3. on Android App)Asiandating site

Asian dating was founded 10 years ago and a long-time standing dating site for Asian singles. On, you can find and chat with any kind of women you could imagine from Asia: staff, executives, single mum…… from any background.

The site has more than 2.5 million singles from China, Indonesia, Philippines, Thailand, Japan and other countries and regions of Asia.

If you want to find a girl in Indonesian cities such as Jakarta. The best option is AsianDating, where most girls hope to develop a steady romantic relationship with foreigners. (Of course, some are looking for money or one night stand.) But this does not suggest they will get married immediately, they expect to have a long-term romance which may lead to marriage.

AsianDating offers free membership, you can create a free profile with just several minutes, then browse photos of other members, then send message or interest to start communicating.

It allows basic functions such as text messaging, and sending email, premier members can contact many more girls and have online video chat with ideal girls. The advantage is that here you can not only find Indonesian girls but also girls from other Asian countries.


  • Free account and register your profile
  • User-friendly interface with easy to use functions
  • Lots of active members from all around Asia
  • Advanced search and matching system
  • Android app is available


  • iOS  app is not available.

Visit AsianDating!

4. Tinder

tinder dating app

Tinder is a popular dating App. It was first used by foreign and Western-educated girls in Indonesia, now it has expanded to a trendy app in the country. Strictly speaking, Tinder is not a typical dating site, it is a platform to make friends, or rather,  to find casual sex.

The girls on Tinder tend to younger, speak English, well-educated and many have good jobs, this is the place where many Indonesian girls hope to meet foreigners. It is almost free to use. Creating an account needs to connect with Facebook or your mobile phone. So it can make sure the members are real persons to a large extent and avoid scams.

Tinder allows members to use a swiping function to like (swipe right) or dislike (swipeleft) other members, and allows users to chat if both people like each other (a “match”). It is a cool function which makes you much easier to find another dating partner.

A free member can find girls nearby, if you stay abroad, you can not chat with girls in Jakarta. ( you need to pay to search for girls in other areas). If you travel to Jakarta or Bali, Tinder is the best app for you hook-up and one-night-stand hunting.


  • Creating a profile is quick and easy
  • A lot of members
  • You can find people with all gender identities
  • Quick to find people near your by a glance of their picture


  • Most users are quite sex-focused

Visit Tinder!


5. Instagram


Instagram is very popular in Indonesia and is the second most popular social platform for young people (behind Facebook). It has more than 800 million members worldwide and most people on Instagram are aged from 20 to 25.

People mainly use Instagram to check funny or joke pics as well as post travel photos. However, it can be regarded as a dating website in Indonesia. It has both Android and iOS App available.

You can add your travel and life photos and follow the accounts of girls and comments on their pictures. However, as many girls here are not single and they may not be active in finding a boyfriend here, it takes time and need to be patient on Instagram.

Visit Instagram


Above are the top 5 most popular dating sites and app in Indonesia, check and find which one suits you best. If you have any advise or suggestion about any dating site in Indonesia, please leave a comment below.

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