Knowing how to make a girl fall in love with you is like fishing with dynamite. It can yield amazing results, but it can also be incredibly dangerous. Use these 5 techniques to make girls fall in love with you, but please, please be careful! If you don’t love the girl, yet you make her fall in love with you, then you are going to have serious problems. Women will be really upset to find out that you do not love them and have just been leading them on. This article presumes that you have already attracted her and are in some sort of a relationship. Now that you’ve read the warning….
It’s important that you are both on the same wavelength. You need to share some common interests/hobbies but most importantly you must share many common beliefs (be it God, how you should raise your kids, how people should treat each other, why chocolate chip ice cream is the best ice cream ever, etc). Your common beliefs don’t necessarily need to be serious. They can be anything; the important thing is that you both truly believe them.
This will help you to both form a connection that will be strengthened by trust….
People think that trust is built by being nice to people and doing what they ask. This is not quite correct. Trust is built between 2 people through honesty. If you can be honest with your partner, this will strengthen your connection.
The best way to be honest when learning how to make a girl fall in love with you is to disagree with your girl on topics that won’t offend her. So if you don’t like Coca-Cola and she does, don’t be afraid to tell her. Think about this. Would you trust someone that tells you they like everything you like? Probably not. No way. That’s why it’s important to disagree with her on certain things to build trust and strengthen your connection. Building trust is absolutely key to knowing how to make a girl fall in love with you.
3. Whirlwind Romance
Many dating gurus will tell you that in order to get a girl attracted, you need to be elusive and scarce, to keep her on her toes. This is absolutely true. It will make her attracted to you, but it is not how to make a girl fall in love with you.
To make a girl fall deeply in love with you, it is vital that she is swept up in a whirlwind of love. You need to maybe call her 3 times in one day, then none the next day, then twice the next day. Obviously keep it random, but you need to keep up constant contact and be hanging out at least 3 times a week together. Part of making a girl fall in love with you is sweeping her off her feet in a whirlwind of romance. If she is attracted to you already (remember this stuff doesn’t work unless she is already attracted to you, so read some of the articles at Dating Tips for Guys if she’s not attracted yet), then you appearing to fall in love with her, will help her fall in love with you.
4. The Future
If you are already doing the previous 3 steps in the process of making a girl fall in love with you, then things should be progressing nicely. Next you need to make sure you are making plans together for the future. They need to range from next week to a few years time. So you could plan to go to the beach at the weekend and decide on what you should do together for your holidays in 3 months time.
Having plans for the future lets her see that you are not just thinking about getting laid, you are thinking of spending time together in the future.
5. Have purpose
Planning for the future is one thing, but if you are going nowhere in your own life, then girls will not want to stick around. To prevent this from happening, you need to make sure that your life is together. Do you have a good source of income? Do you have friends outside of your relationship? Are you fit and healthy? Are you moving in a direction that is positive and exciting? If any of the answers to these questions is NO, then you need to get your act together because quality girls only want to be with guys that have purpose and are going somewhere in their lives. Using all the above step on how to make a girl fall in love with you are useless without having purpose in your life.