The Best Indonesian Dating Sites for Foreigners

Indonesian women are different with women from other Asian countries. Generally speaking, Indonesian girls have long dark-colored hair, a tiny body, bigger brown eyes, sensual appearance and amazing smile.

Many girls in the country’s provinces (about one third) use Jilbab (a kind of loose long coat worn by Muslim Women), but girls from big cities like Jakarta, Christian or Hindu areas are more open. They are usually slim, pretty and wear jeans and T-shirt. Indonesian girls like being with foreigners so much that even a very common man have chances to date models and actresses from the country. Of course if you are good looking with a decent job and salary, you will have very high success rate of dating Indonesian women.

Beautiful Indonesian girls

Today it has become very convenient to find your ideal lovers in Indonesia. many Indonesian girls resort to internet to find their foreign partners. You can sign up any of the Indonesian dating sites below. I suggest you find girls from a big cities such as Jakarta, you will always find some hidden gems among the many local girls. Please check my reviews of Indonesian dating sites below.

1. IndonesianCupid

indonesian cupid dating websiteIndonesian Cupid is a top Indonesian dating site connecting local singles with foreign singles. This is the biggest Indonesian dating site for foreigners.

Indonesian Cupid is part of well-reputed Cupid Media, one of the largest dating services in the world. Indonesian Cupid has more than one million male and female registers from both Indonesia and around the world. Most girls here are serious and are interested in long time relationships. The site has brought thousands of happy men and women together and you can find their happy stories on the site.

The site offers various functions like creating profile, text messaging, delivering “interest”, online chatting and so on. You can put a girl to your like list very easily and then look through the girls’ profiles and make a profile list you would like to contact.

One feature on Indonesian Cupid is that Indonesian girls here tend to write more about themselves on dating profile such as likes and dislikes, which is very different from girls in countries such as Thailand and Philippines who spend less time on their profile. This means that Indonesian girls put some thoughts into finding their love. Besides, girls on this platform are more middle class compared with dating app Tinder. Probably, you’ll chat with company employees, teachers, nurses, etc.

Indonesian Cupid is a quite active site and there are always at least 500-1000 Indonesian girls online. Compared with other sites, I must say that this is the best place to find Indonesian singles. I will give it 5 stars and strongly recommend it to you.


Badoo dating site is another excellent dating site which is often used by Indonesian singles. Though it is an international site, many open and modern Indonesian women especially in Jakarta like to be on Badoo and there are often hundreds of Indonesian girls online.

You can find large numbers of Indonesian girls with different background. You can choose your ideal girls through age, place, status, etc. The free basic service allows you to send messages to 5 girls per day, upload photos and chat. A paid member can enjoy more advanced features. Many girls here can speak English and most of them hope to see foreign lovers. However, it seems that there are some prostitutes who look for clients on Badoo. Be careful with that.

The functions are very good for a free member, you can send text message to a small number of people everyday. Paid members can get access to more profiles. Badoo has both website and app available.


Asiandating site

On, you can find and chat with any kind of women you could imagine from Asia: staff, executives, single mum…… from any background. The site has more than 2.5 million singles from China, Indonesia, Philippines, Thailand, Japan and other countries and regions of Asia.

If you want to find a girl in Indonesian cities such as Jakarta. The best option is AsianDating, where most girls hope to develop a steady romantic relationship with foreigners. (Of course, some are looking for money or one night stand.) But this does not suggest they will get married immediately, they expect to have a long-term romance which may lead to marriage.

AsianDating offers free membership which allows basic functions such as text messaging, and sending email, premier members can contact many more girls and have online video chat with ideal girls. The advantage is that here you can not only find Indonesian girls but also girls from other Asian countries.

4. Tinder

tinder dating app

Tinder is a popular dating App. It was first used by foreign and Western-educated girls in Indonesia, now it has expanded to a trendy app in the country. Strictly speaking, Tinder is not a typical dating site, it is a platform to make friends, or rather,  to find casual sex.

The girls on Tinder tend to younger, speak English, well-educated and many have good jobs, this is the place where many Indonesian girls hope to meet foreigners. It is almost free to use, Creating an account needs to connect with Facebook.

A free member can find girls nearby, if you stay abroad, you can not chat with girls in Jakarta. ( you need to pay to search for girls in other areas). If you travel to Jakarta or Bali, Tinder is the best app for you hook-up and one-night-stand hunting.

5. Instagram


Instagram is very popular in Indonesia and is the second most popular social platform for young people (behind Facebook). Most people on Instagram are aged from 20 to 25.

People mainly use Instagram to check funny or joke pics as well as post travel photos. However, it can be regarded as a dating website in Indonesia.

You can add your travel and life photos and follow the accounts of girls and comments on their pictures. However, as many girls here are not single and they may not be active in finding a boyfriend here, it takes time and need to be patient on Instagram.

Peter Wang

Hey! I'm Peter Wang, the founder of LovelyPandas. My dream is for a world full of love and romance. I seek to help people find love and build amazing relationships. You can find useful online dating tips and honest dating site reviews here. Feel free to write to us if you have any comments.


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