Find a mate? For some people looking for a mate is not a day and night job. For them this is years of work! Finding a date might be easy enough but finding a true soul mate is like finding a needle in a haystack. We can’t walk in the afternoon and get a true soul mate at night. We need various efforts and most importantly, the recognition of who our soul mate really is. Technology makes things easier, but no matter how sophisticated the technology we use, it won’t help much if we can’t understand the basic essence of a true soul mate. A true soul mate is a person we always feel comfortable in, someone who loves us unconditionally and we love her/him unconditionally, someone who is able to understand ourselves and ultimately, someone who always expects the best for us.
Unfortunately, not everyone can recognize his/her true soul mate. They don’t even know that their true soul mate is always near them. They often chase the wrong person. And worse, when they feel they have found a true soul mate, they don’t know what to do. This article will explain to you how you can attract the attention of your true soul mate. Your true soul mate must not only be loved, but must also be fought for! Attracting men or attracting women; both may be difficult but not impossible to do.
1. Try to be happy
Your happiness will spread to the people around you. Conversely, if you give yourself gloom, then the gloom will be shared with the people around you in some way. With happiness you will look fun by those around you and if you look happy then the one you love will find a positive aura in you. A positive aura will attract anyone including your soul mate.
2. Do as much as possible
You must do the right thing as much as possible. By doing wrong you will not look attractive. You might look attractive to people with bad personalities but not those with good personalities. Don’t you want someone with a good personality to be your true soul mate? Now is the time for asking about love! You want a good one or bad one?
3. The idea of solitude is something that must be thrown away
You can’t draw your soul mate as long as you still hold the idea of loneliness as something important. Forget the idea of your loneliness otherwise you will spend the rest of your life without the presence of someone you love. Being independent is good but humans are social beings who need the presence of others. Many old singles have almost the same problem; they uphold the idea of loneliness as something that must be maintained at any time. Release the idea of your loneliness without letting go of your independence. They are two different things.
4. Using online dating applications
Undeniably, the Internet has helped millions of people to find their soul mate. Why don’t you do what they have done? Online dating applications, although not something major, are very helpful for anyone looking for a true soul mate without being constrained by geographical restrictions. People in Los Angeles can find their ideal men or women who live in Detroit easily. There is absolutely no geographical limit. All that is the past. Of course to participate in online searches you have to prepare everything. Choose your photos as best as possible to impress the people you like that you are a quality person. But do not do the engineering on your photos because lies will not last long and once it is revealed, everything that is built will be destroyed like a sand building hit by a rock. Suppose you approach a woman, you might learn about everything to seduce her. How to seduce her may be quite easy but ultimately honesty is the main thing.
5. The past is past
The past is very important, especially as a means of introspection, but it should not be used as a “ghost” for the future. Today is all different from yesterday and we should not make our past a big barrier to our future success. People who are too attached to their past tend not to succeed in the future and this is a fact. The past is a lesson but no more than that! Don’t let the past imprison you.
6. Write a diary
This may be an old-fashioned way but writing in a diary can help us to know what we really want. By writing in our diary we can focus more on the goals to be achieved. Without a diary all our desires will always be abstract ones. There are no records and everything that is not recorded will be easy to forget. Knowing what you want from someone will help you find the right person to be with you for the rest of your life. You can write a list of the characteristics you want and purify it all according to the situation you are facing.
7. Suppose your search is a game
Your search for your true soul mate can be considered a game. This will help you not be too disappointed when there are one or two things that disappoint you. By considering the search for a match as a game, you will look more relaxed. And by looking more relaxed you will certainly look more attractive.
8. You can’t go further before forgiving yourself
Forgive yourself or you can’t go further. Regret may be useful to prevent you from doing the same bad things but on the other hand it will prevent you from doing new good things in your life. Forgiving yourself is just as important as forgiving others. Both provide new relief to do better things. Forgive yourself before it’s too late! To note, forgive is the same with to give new opportunities by definition.
9. Make space in your life
You have to make a special space in your life. Once you want to attract the attention of someone you love, you can’t provide a special space for him/her in your life. You can’t think for yourself only because you now have to share life with another person, your soul mate.
10. Your intuition is everything
You have read everything, you have searched for a lot of information, you have received recommendations from people you love but one thing that should not be ignored is your intuition. Your instinct is something natural, something that always reminds you if you do the wrong thing and something that encourages you from inside to do the right things. By using your intuition you have an advisor who can’t lie. What is better than an honest advisor who can’t lie?
A true soul mate is worth fighting for. But you must realize that you must fight for it in good ways. If you fight for something in bad ways then you will end up with bad results. Hopefully the 10 tips above can be useful for you to attract your soul mate.