Top 5 Japanese Online Dating Sites for Western Men

Japanese girls are really cutie, unique and irresistible, dating a Japanese girl can be incredibly amazing. If you’ve ever been to travel to Japan you might have noticed that there’s a large number of foreign men walking hand-in-hand with Japanese girls. Actually a lot of  Japanese women want to date a foreign guy, they love the feeling of being told how much you love her and many think that it is  “cool” and “exotic“ to fall in love with a foreign guy. So, dating in Japan is usually quite easy for foreign men.

In spite of  Japan’s adoption of and love for technology, single not many Japanese find their love through online dating. Actually only a small proportion of the people are willing to try online dating site. However, I think the situation will  change with the times, more and more Japanese will embrace online dating.

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Despite the disconnect of online dating in Japanese culture, Japan does have some online dating sites that really worth seeing. Just be patient, like you do everything, and keep searching, you will find a few gems out there and start a new life.

I have looked into some foreigner-oriented Japanese dating sites and here is my pick of the top 5 Japanese dating sites for foreigners. Check my detailed reviews below find one that suits you best.

1. Japan Cupid

Japan cupid dating site is the best online dating site to find a Japanese girl. The site has more than 700,000 members, which is a very large number since online dating still haven’t gained its popularity in Japan.

It’s not easy to get dates in Japan without using JapanCupid because not many girls here speak very much English.  You can rely on Japan Cupid, which is designed for anyone especially foreigners who want get a date with English-speaking Japanese woman. JapanCupid is the best dating site to use if you want to have a causal sex or a proper girlfriend in Japan.

It is free to sign up, you can create detailed profile including adding pictures and giving a nice description. You can search and send notification for free. However, full access to all of its functions requires a small monthly fee starting from $29.99/per moth, and $10/per month for a year plan, no other cost after becoming a membership.

One of the things I really like is that they will stop scammers and suspend fake profiles. However, you still need to keep an eye  on those scammers who slide by the system. The site is available in several languages including Japanese, English, French and other popular languages, so it provides an excellent platform for non-Japanese daters.

Overall, JapanCupid is one of the most popular and trusted Japanese dating sites. The site is free to register and simple to use, It takes only a few minutes to fill out the basic profile and you can start finding real dates immediately.

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2. Japan Match

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Japan Match  is Japanese version of the famous serious dating site

In 2002 the leading dating companies like have entered in Japan, which offers a more legitimate platform for daters. The site is popular in the USA. However,  according to Alex data, it seems very few Japanese are using it. in Japan has only Japanese language available, so not a good option for foreigners who don’t know Japanese.

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3. Ok Cupid

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Okcupid Japan is an interactive and very entertaining dating app. It is available on both Android and iOS phones. Just like POF, Okcupid is go-to for young urban daters.

Members can browse others’ profiles directly on its friendly interface. The disadvantage is that its member pool is relatively small compared with other dating sites such as JapanCupid.

However it also has its strength as Okcupid is one of the biggest dating sites and apps in the world. so you have chances to find overseas Japanese date even those living in your regions.

OKCupid is overall a free site, Paid memberships can enjoy some advanced features such as private browsing. The cost starts from $9.99 per month, and better price for multiple months plan.

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4. Worldfriends


Worldfriends is social network, more like a friendship and language exchange site, but large numbers on it, male and female use it as a dating platform.

It is one of the best places to meet Japanese singles for people living in Japan or English-speaking foreigners. The site supports five different languages including Japanese and English.

Its core member base is Canada, the USA, China and Japan. According to the site’ data, it has more than 5 million users in around 200 countries and regions, so there should be no problem getting around the site and find friends or lovers from Japan.

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5. Soulmates Japan(This website is not available at present)

soulmatesjapanSoulmates Japan is a free leading Japanese dating and friendship platform for those who seek romance, relationships and friendship with Japanese singles.

The company is based in Tokyo and employs Japanese and native English speaking guys to monitor membership abuse, which guarantees almost all of its members are real.

Most of its members are English-speaking Japanese singles that are interested interracial relationship and marriage. The site supports functions such as mail box and live chat.

Peter Wang

Hey! I'm Peter Wang, the founder of LovelyPandas. My dream is for a world full of love and romance. I seek to help people find love and build amazing relationships. You can find useful online dating tips and honest dating site reviews here. Feel free to write to us if you have any comments.